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The New Gold rush. There’s a money spinning industry which has crept up silently over the last 5 years or so and become central to the leisure time of most young people all over the globe; DATING. But not as...
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After my relationship ended in the middle of the first lockdown (perfect timing) it took me a year to get myself out there again and brave the dating apps – what other option do singles have during a pandemic? While...
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Think back to the 1990 Salt n Pepa classic ‘Let’s talk about sex’. Specifically the line where Salt raps: ‘everybody should be making love‘ to which Peppa responds: ‘Come on, How many guys you know make love?’ And replace this...
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Our dating coach & author of the Gay Dating Guide is waiting to answer your dating related questions. Email your question to info @ urbanconnections.co.uk with Q&A in the subject. [QA]
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The sushi conveyor belt of gay dating. I liken the dating mentality of Gay Londoners to a sushi restaurant conveyor belt . If you don’t like the look of what’s in front of you, no problem, there’s another and another...
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Gender Fluidity in the UK 2017 2017 will go down as a watershed in gender history. Teenagers are rejecting the binary choices of male or female, straight or gay. High street stores like John Lewis have removed boys and girls...
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Definition of ghosting, from the Urban Dictionary: The act of suddenly ceasing all communication with someone the subject is dating, but no longer wishes to date. This is done in hopes that the ghostee will just “get the hint” and...
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How many times have you heard a gay man saying it’s impossible to find a partner because most guys are just looking for sex? Whether this is true or not, with testosterone running riot in our systems, both gay and...
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Is the gay scene a good or bad thing for gay men who want to find a partner? Surely it makes sense to frequent the places where most gay men hang out if you are looking to meet a boyfriend?...
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Many gay men identify with either a top or bottom role, which is fine; but, to what extent should a sexual position/role dominate chosing a potential partner? What if a bottom meets a sexy, intelligent, funny man who is compatible...
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